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Posted by SUGANOTES1,195 pts Tuesday, April 27, 2021

BTS Suga's wise response to a fan warm hearts

On April 25, 2020, BTS's Suga went on V live as "Syub D" again, where he replied to fans' questions and concerns they had tweeted using the hashtag: #슙디에게물어봐.

"Syup D" is from when BTS participated in Kkul FM 06.13. Kkul FM was a radio-like series in which BTS did yearly for their anniversary FESTA and Suga was the main host of the show.

In the show, a fan wrote: "I gave up my dream."

And Suga's response was: "I don't know what happened but it must have required tremendous courage. Making a bold decision to give up means you have great courage. You've worked hard. Fighting."

Fans went on Twitter to express how touching his words were for them too, praising him for being understanding and comforting toward someone who was already hurting for making this hard decision instead of being judgmental.


Suga also spoke about the courage it takes to give up in his song "Burn it ft.MAX" from his last Mixtape "D-2": "I hope you don’t forget that giving up decisively also counts as courage."

Fans again went on Twitter to discuss how much Suga's words mean to them and how the "giving up is being weak" narrative is toxic and harmful.

Suga is well-known for his wise and soothing words between the fans and comforted many by his words and lyrics. He doesn't sugar-coat, he doesn't give textbook quotes that are useless in the real world, he doesn't blame you, he says your happiness is what matters and not the norms the society has made you believe. You are not at fault in this unfair society.

In "BTS 'Beautiful'(美친) Press Conference," Suga talked about the song "Paradise" from BTS's Love Yourself: Tear : "I told fans that dreams aren't necessary, that being happy is enough. That's how the song was born. The world never teaches you how to dream but it always promotes competition. I'd like many who are tired from the competition to listen to this song. I'd like those tired souls to find rest through paradise."

He has also discussed this issue in his own song "So far away" from his first Mixtape, "Agust D."

What makes Suga different and comforting is that while he always encourages you to fight hard for your dream and future, he also understands that not everything is achievable, that some stuff is out of control. On "dear class of 2020," he said: "Take your hands off of what you can't control, and get your hands on what you can change". These words are remarkable because human life isn't long enough to be wasted on impossibles. For you to be happy, sometimes you need to learn when and how to let go and use what is in your reach to be finally happy."


Suga has also expressed his desire to get a counseling license for the sole reason of helping people.

Here you can read other examples of comforting words BTS's Suga has told fans:


“A slump is inevitable, there’s no one who lives without one. what do you have to do? just keep going. don’t think about, just keep doing what you’ve always done. some people say there’s a special way to overcome a slump, but that’s not true. just keep going, and you’ll improve.”

"I hope you reach everything you want in 2020. Even if you failed, don’t be discouraged. Even if you trip and fall, what’s important is to get up again.”


"Even if it turns out you didn't do too well on the exam, there is no need to feel so defeated. It may feel like your world is collapsing, when you don’t get the results you want, but that’s not true, that’s not how our lives work, What’s important is you get back up."



It is said that if comfort were a person, it'd be Yoongi.

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akijjang
akijjang139 pts Tuesday, April 27, 2021 0
Tuesday, April 27, 2021

Yes, Suga is the epitome of comfort. I remembered crying so hard because of his song "So far away", it was so much resonated to me that time. That one lyrics that hit so hard everytime goes:

Dream, you will fully bloom after all the hardships (Fully bloom)
Dream, though your beginnings may be humble, may the end be prosperous

I am so thankful of him i somehow got back up again 😊 And i adore you dearly..

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LanaS207171 pts Tuesday, April 27, 2021 0
Tuesday, April 27, 2021

Yoongi is smart and wise. He is always honest in his words, songs. He's the first person to come to the rescue, even if you don't ask him to. I love him so much.

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