Former T-ara member Ahreum publicly shared her ongoing conflict with her current husband, (referred to as Mr. A) by posting screenshots of text message exchanges involving him and her father-in-law, (referred to as Mr. A) on her personal social media channel.
In the messages, Mr. A accused Ahreum of misconduct, writing, “You hit Jaeha and Jaei, abandoned Mideum, and drank alcohol while pregnant. What’s wrong with you? If people knew, this would cause a huge controversy.”
In response, Ahreum angrily refuted the allegations, saying, “I hit my kids? All the Gods must be laughing at you. If I drank alcohol while pregnant, would Mideum have been born so healthy? And would the child in my womb still be hanging on so well despite the stress caused by someone like you? Don’t you feel sorry for your own child?”
She added, “Living with you has been hell for me. I’ve lived in hell because of you, so I hope you go to hell when you die. If I happen to die of suicide, know that it’s entirely your fault. And even if I don’t die, I’ll make your life hell until I do. Remember that.”
Ahreum also shared a conversation with her father-in-law, Mr. B, asking him to intervene. She texted, “Please send him to a psychiatric hospital or take care of Mideum with him. I’ll follow your decision.”
Mr. B replied apologetically, saying, “I’m sorry. I don’t know what to say.” Ahreum also entrusted her third child, born with Mr. A, to Mr. B, asking him to take good care of the child.
She further accused Mr. A, a writer, of pretending to be something he is not, stating, “Schizophrenia. Pretending to be a writer with fancy words doesn’t make you one. You think you’re right, but you’re not. I put up with you out of respect for your father and for the sake of our children. Now that I’m pregnant again, you think I can’t escape you. If you want to claim I abandoned my children, stop being so low and start acting like a decent human being.”
On December 3rd, Ahreum had previously mentioned incidents of abuse and mental health struggles, along with comments about her children. Initially interpreted as targeting her ex-husband, she later clarified the remarks were directed at her current husband, Mr. A. The newly revealed messages have shocked many as she openly aired their disputes online.
Ahreum, who announced her divorce and remarriage to Mr. A last year, gave birth to their third child in October and recently revealed that she is pregnant with their fourth.