News have spread throughout and many outcomes  are being seen. For those who might not know,  it concern a Kpop band Named EXO. It is not new for most EXO-L that one of pour favorite member Chen,  also know as Kim Jong-Dae have reported, or father declared to be dating . 

Suho, another member of EXO uploaded on his social medias the 16 of January , of the EXO-L's hand sign or also known as the “L” sign, captioned “We are at a stage where words are not essential and only one hand signal can do everything.”

Now to Be honest, this article is published to share opinions. 

Currently, several hastags are trending on social media and some of them are for Chen's new relationship, while some are telling him to quit, for the sake of the group. 

K-netizen have long shown us their view upon their idols dating,  but is it the correct method? 

Idols,  Celebrities and public figure have their right to lead their own life and fans shouldn't in any way dictate how it should be for them.  Isn't it a but selfish to want them for yourself only?

of course, we can understand that it may interfere in their career and also since it was supposedly hinted that his girlfriend is pregnant, it might take him away from is job for a while.  But that doesn't mean he has to leave Exo,  taking a break is more than enough. 

An artist is nothing but a Human also. So why must you dictate how they should live their life?